Chilly Chile!

Countdown: 12 days to Chile.
















As promised, I have been reading up on my pending home away from home. I've gotten a lot of info out of the Fodors book, which I had a chance to read pretty much cover to cover on Tuesday, when I was in NYC for a promising job interview at a major publisher and had lunch with my Book Angel (and good friend), Erika. I'll get back to NYC in a sec...but now, Chile.





Here's what else I learned thanks to my Fodor's Chile Book:

1) It is fall season in Chile in May. Temps will be chilly (between 50 and 60 degrees) Nice...right as NYC is starting to warm up. While I'm digging out my summer clothes for my next 12 days here, I'm throwing my winter clothes in a pile to get packed in my suitcase.

2) I need to go to the doctor to check my MMR boosters and get a Hep A shot. (I took care of this during this week. The Hep A shot cost $83 (not covered by insurance) and it is only the first shot in a series of two (the second shot comes in six months). The doctor said this was better than nothing. We'll see about that.

3) There is a nice park in Santiago, Chile where I can hike up (about an hour) and see the entire city. Views are great. Excercise is even better. I'm still doing Joy's Life Diet...my plan is to keep up the good work while I am away. Hopefully Chilleans don't love the fried food as much as I do.

4) I can use my cell phone for $1 a minute and $0.40 text messages. Or I can get my cell phone unlocked to get a local SIM card, which should save me money. (I went for the unlocked phone option). In the process of doing this, I found out I can get my blackberry unlocked by some random company for $30 Orrrr I could call T-Mobile and they would give me the code for free (Guess which option I chose?). In addition, in cleaning my condo, I found that I had not one, but two spare phones. So I think I may bring 2 phones. One for local (Chile) calls and one for emergency (US Calls). I can thank God right now my mother is not a chatterbox and doesn't need to talk to me every day.

5) I think I am going to have to rent a car or fly to some of the other places I want to see in Chile. I know the Sisters plan to send me to Ovalle, but I also want to see the wineries and other locations up North. I'll have to check out the bank accounts when I get there.

My spanish...es muy malo
I am also working on my Rosetta Stone studies. I try to get an hour or two in a day. I went to B&N today, because I have been spending way too much time on TV lately. They have free electricity and nice chairs there, so I parked myself in front of a window and got down to business.

I am now on Level 2...and after talking to the "no hablo ingles" Domincan guy, Roberto, at the gym, I realize I am in big trouble. There are so may words I just don't know. It is hard to have a conversation when you are stuck on simple things like telling someone where you live.

And my mom and I had a funny (or not so funny) conversation on the ferry today. I'm allergic to Yellow Jackets. If I get stung, its lights out for me, unless I get to a hospital. My face swells, my throat closes up, and I can't breathe. In the past my doctor wouldn't give me a prescription for the shot I need to save my life, because she said it was better to just get to the hospital and that in most cases, how often would I be that far away from a hospital??? And honestly, I am lucky if I have my keys every day. Chances of me carrying this thing around is slim to none on the day I get stung. Well, my new doctor gave me the prescription for the trip.

Here's the funny part...How do you say "Yellow Jacket" in spanish? "abrigo amarillo"??? I don't think so.





If I get stung, I don't have a lot of time...I need to give myself the shot, get to the hospital and hope that I don't pass out from lack of oxegyn. "Ayudame!!! Abrigo Amarillo" will be my choking words. I guess I can be thankful it is fall in Chile and los abrigos amarillos will be out of season.







A minor side note: Adding to my Before you Die NYC List:

1) Go to a Jazz show at Dizzy's Club Coca Cola located in the Time Warner Building at Columbus Circle. So the price for a show is $35 plus $10 min for a drink. When you add a drink and food and tax and tip, you get a bill around $80 per person min...Now, yes this is expensive, and you could do it a little cheaper (eat somewhere else...and just get one drink). But the view of Central Park and the music was something else. Definitely recommend for a night out.

2) Visit the New York Public Library (and the bathroom at Bryant Park) Fifth Avenue at 42nd Street, 10018-2788.917-ASK-NYPL (917-275-6975) First of all, this library is beautiful on the inside and the outside. The lions have been a fascination to me ever since I saw them come to life in the WIZ (see 1:14 for the Library Lion in clip below).





Ahhh...just watched the DVD trailer not as fascinating as I remember, but give me a break, I was just a little kid. Anwyay, this is a NYC landmark. You have to see it.

When you are done looking around, go downstairs to the basement, go out the side door, and walk towards 6th Avenue.There is a public rest room outside the library right where Bryant Park begins on 42nd street. It is the CLEANEST public bathroom I have ever been to. It has flowers in it and everything. I swear...its amazing. A wonder of the world. You have to see it for yourself.



Then go to the park, sit and relax and take a seat and do some people-watching. Its the the most fun thing to do in NYC, and best of all, its FREE!!!

Focus on: Chile

Well, work ends for me on Wednesday and then I begin a new chapter in my life.

I'm not going to lie...I am sad to be laid off. You can't help but feeling a little rejected. How did I make the cut and other people get to stay? Why me? Why anyone? But you know what, I can't be bothered with these bad thoughts. They are counter-productive. I choose to find a bright side. EVERYTHING happens for a reason.

It definately helps that as far as layoffs go (this was my second one), this one was fairly pleasant. They gave me six weeks notice, an okay severance, and I couldn't ask for a better time of year. I'll be getting my tax refund and can enjoy some nice weather, while I collect unemployment and job hunt with the rest of the country.

But first, I'm going to Santiago, Chile. That's right. I'm going. I need a change. I am going to recharge and I'm going to speak Spanish if it kills me.


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So if you are wondering what I will be reading for the next few weeks, I can tell you with 100% certianty, it won't be about Elvis. Thanks to another publishing friend (aka Book Angel #3) I'm reading Chile - Culture Smart!: a quick guide to customs and etiquette and Fodor's Chile, 4th Edition: Including Argentine Patagonia



So far, I learned the following:
1) There is no time difference between NYC and Chile.
2) Never show up on time, as nobody will be expecting you, but be punctual the first time, just in case.
3) Lunch is the main meal of the day and dinner is between 8 and 9pm. "Once" is the period between lunch and dinner you have a little snack.
4) Chileans love their grilled meat and seafood.
5) Water is okay to drink in Santiago, but have bottled water in rural areas.
6) Tipping is 10%
7) Men like to stare at women.
8) Drinks can be very strong so be careful.

Clearly...I have more to read. But its a start.

Elvis and Layoffs

What a difference a few weeks make! When we got back from Tennessee, all I was worried about was finishing my Elvis book, Careless Love by Peter Guralnick.




Then I got laid off.
Now, I was worried about finding a new job, money and all the things I had planned for the near future...Getting laid off wasn't what I had in mind for 2009. I just got myself in a good place. I'm losing weight, on dating sites, and just feeling good about life. WTF?????? Not this again.

Hope and inspiration from a small book...
So...I get this email from NYU for the launch event for the book called the World Wide Rave. My boss told me to do what I need to do to find another job, so I signed up figuring it was a networking opportunity. I was inspired by the various speakers, including author David Meerman Scott. While not really a networking event, it gave me hope for my future. The Internet is changing again...and after 10 years I'm still moving forward with it. Things started looking brighter.




Big lift from a small package
Then I get home to a shipment from my Book Angel. To my surprise...it was LAST TRAIN TO MEMPHIS...another Elvis Book from the author of Careless Love. This was a follow up to another shipment of assorted reading from Book Angel... NICE...good day.




Another possible bright side...
Then I was visiting with my Aunt and Uncle, talking about my Cousin's wedding in California in June. My cousin Kim is driving back to New York, right after the wedding. Maybe I could drive back with her? Maybe... I like the sound of something to do...A few more spots to check off my list from 1001 places to visit before you die. Sounds okay to me.



Good News still shines through
Then I had a revelation. What if I could take some time and travel and maybe learn Spanish? An email and phone call later, I was speaking to the former principal of my high school, Sr. Lois and I was planning my trip to Chile. A few days later I got the good news. The nuns think this is a GREAT idea and they are happy to have me. Dreams coming true.

Then I called my cable company...Told them I got laid off. My bill was reduced to $99. A call to my credit card company had more good news. They told me that if I needed it, I just had to tell them that I need hardship support and I get 3 months with no interest. Plus I found out I had enough miles to go to Chile...Free.

Then my friend Tricia told me that the federal government will pay 65% of COBRA premiums for employees who are laid off from Sept. 1, 2008, through Dec. 31, 2009. The subsidy will extend for nine months. A big relief.


I think I found a Bright Side
So...No, not what I had in mind for 2009...but I am starting to think that the universe and God still has a plan for me. Just in case...I'll also pick up a copy of highly recommended book, Rebound by by Martha I. Finney. I'm not going to let this shitty economy bring me down!





It now time to start brushing up on Spanish with the Rosetta Stone, learning more about Chile and digging up my copy of The Secret.







More to come...